This just came to my mind. I was going to make it a facebook rant, but decided that blogging would be more productive.
I am the mom! Me! I am the one that makes the decisions. You can give me all the advice you want. You can be horrified and appalled that my child is still using a bottle, or that he's not potty trained, or that my children have a TV and a blu-ray player(with WiFi) in their room. But guess what, at the end of the day, I'm the mom. I know my kids are fine. I do not feel guilty about my decisions.
So, go ahead. Be appalled. Give your unasked for advice. I'll continue on parenting the way I am, knowing that my kids are doing just fine.